In this work we developed new tools to visualise the DNA-uptake pilus using a cysteine labelling approach. Using this method we show that DNA-uptake pili are highly dynamic and that they retract prior to DNA-uptake. On average competent cells produce 1-2 pili per min per cell and within this timeframe about 2/3 cells produce a pilus. Moreover, we confirmed that these dynamics are dependent on the retraction ATPase, PilT. Indeed, in the absence of PilT, cells produce multiple static pili. Unexpectedly, these hyper-piliated cells have the ability to auto-aggregate via direct pilus-pilus interaction, and in liquid culture form macroscopic aggregates that rapidly sediment. In pandemic strains, which all produce an identical PilA, the aggregation phenotype is conserved. However, we discovered that extensive strain-to-strain variability in PilA, present in environmental strains, controls the ability of pili to interact but does not affect their ability to mediate transformation. Remarkably, the variability between different PilA subunits creates highly specific interactions that allow pili to distinguish between one another and thus, specifically interact with pili composed of the same PilA subunit. Finally, we went on to show that during growth on chitinous surfaces cells exist within large interconnecting networks of pili, suggesting that these interactions likely function during surface colonisation.