In this project, we conducted two large studies using experience sampling. Experience sampling involves giving people smartphones and then asking them to report on their real-life experiences across the day. In one study, we followed people in their daily lives for two weeks. In another study, we followed a group of university students who were receiving their exam results for the first time across nine days. This study allowed us to look at how people responded to one large emotional event. In addition, we used another dataset in which we asked people to report on negative events every day for a week, and a dataset in which we had details about people’s clinical symptoms. All this data collection allowed us to take a comprehensive look at how different contextual features could shape emotion regulation.
In these studies, we found that the way that people regulated their emotions changed a lot over situations. We found that three factors seemed to matter the most: why, when, and who.
First, motivational factors (the reasons why you chose to regulate your emotions) were important. In the past, researchers mostly assumed that people regulated their emotions to feel good. However, our research has shown that people regulate their emotions for lots of reasons, including to help perform tasks, for social relationships, for personal growth, and for learning (Kalokerinos, Tamir, & Kuppens, 2017).
Second, time factors (or when you regulated your emotions) were important. Emotions change over time, but previous research had mostly only looked at a single time-point. We looked across time and showed that people tended to use strategies that were ineffective in changing emotion earlier in an event, and strategies that were effective at changing emotion later on in an event. We also found that dwelling on your emotions was associated with stronger negative emotions later in the event than earlier on, and that rethinking your emotions was associated with lower negative emotions when used earlier in the event than later on (Kalokerinos, Résibois, Verduyn, & Kuppens, 2017; Résibois, Kalokerinos et al., 2017).
Third, social factors (who you were with) were important. The research we conducted shows that if you are in a positive situation and you feel happy, you should show your emotions, but if you are in a negative situation and you feel happy, it is better to hide your emotions. Hiding your emotions is usually a bad strategy, but our work found it can sometimes be useful (Kalokerinos, Greenaway, & Casey, 2017; Greenaway & Kalokerinos, 2017).
We have published five papers on these three factors, and we are continuing to use the data we collected as part of this project to better understand the complex process of emotion regulation. Our work has also suggested that an understanding of context might be a missing piece in people with clinical disorders, and could partially underlie the challenges that people with psychological problems have with emotion regulation.